The moment of transformation. Does the way reality appears to us change, or does reality itself transform?

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The moment of transformation. Does the way reality appears to us change, or does reality itself transform?

I think that our perception of reality changes and varries according to our moods, emotions, past events, current situation and even resoluteness, so it is really we who change the reality for us, not the reality itself so much. Other people might still recieve reality the way we did before metamorphosis, even though we no longer share that perception. But then, if I put a permanent Sepia filter on my camera, the sepia world would be camera’s only reality, so I think it’s more the question of countless coexisting realities, each very real for someone, and how we cope when they clash.